Now that you're done eating your Valentine’s goodies, I guess you can now focus on my mail. You know I actually wanted to write to you—but...well, I just thought it would be too saturated. I wouldn't like to rot in your inbox while you munch on that chocolate.
Do I sound like I'm pained?
Nah! I'm not pained. Because I also collected gifts. Yep! You heard that right.
I did accept a lot of cookies. Plus, I get to attend class, work on projects—i mean what language does love speak again? Definitely, one that shares cookies with you always.
I know that this may seem like futile repetition but damn! I missed you.
But in the next few minutes, I just want to take you through this moment to see from a wider perspective. What I've come to understand with love.
Love is a crazy thing: The truth is sometimes, to love can be overwhelming. I mean, you're literally putting your trust and affection to another person. And really, it will be conflicting. But amidst all, love is also a sweet phenomenon. Grow it in the right person, enjoy the sweet experience.
Love isn't always smooth: Imagine a love life where you both became closer after bumping into each other. Then you went on romantic dates, I mean the type where the room is illuminated with candles. No fight, no disagreement, no—cut it! I'm sorry to hurt your fantasy, but it's not always like that. To love is to live in different phases of realization, growth, care, & accountability. And this can be very heavy for you two, and it may even lead to falling apart, but knowing that love isn't a full ride of sweetness will always prepare your health for hazy days.
You can't love others if you don't love yourself: Probably you're thinking hey what! I just don't like the way I mess things up but Nah! I love that person. To be real, I really wish it's possible. I really wish I could tell you that it is possible you don't love yourself and love someone else unconditionally, but the truth is, it's a lie. I mean, a big fat one. Take, for example, if you're the kind that doesn't trust yourself, it will be very hard to trust someone else. I often say this; the way you assume someone will handle the situation is a mirror of how you always handle the situation. Are you big and hard on forgiving yourself? If you're, it will be very hard for you to forgive others.
Love doesn't have to be about sex: we now live in a world where sex has turned into something casual. But the truth is, the world has always contained people that make sex casual. I guess the reason it all seems to be crashing on us is the realization of our environment. However, to love has become the exchange of orgyness and practices of sexual activities and this has taken away the full enjoyment of love. Rather than focusing on the fact that you've got someone that can be there for you always, pray with you, do life with; your definition has limited the person to quench the raging fire of your horny. And I think this has messed with a lot of relationships/persons. Hence, a lady/guy introduced to the ideation of Love=Sex will always continue the same calculation with any other different persons they find.
Really, to love might seem like a heavy task, but being with someone that sees beyond the moments.
Really, to be pretty honest with you, love is a very complex thing which is why I wouldn't go against you eating cookies. You know (winks*)
So, uhmmm, I think it's high time I say goodbye; see you next month, love. Keep accepting cookies.
I look forward to accepting cookies too 😂.
Thank you for this.