This is one of the questions I used to find very dumb until 2020. Why? The truth is, I am just like the other guy — nothing much, expecting magic after school. But living a whole year at home; then, altered my perspective. More than the environment of magic and fairy thinking, I became more realistic with it. I don't really want to attribute it to me being 20 years old in that year, rather, I think it's the reality of life and how things will be after school.
Wawu
This is a nice breakdown about growth.